True Friendships

blgfr.jpg

output_stnaowneeeew.jpgoutput_vawggi

Am ajuns sa cred ca numai cu timpul iti dai seama cine-ti sunt prietenii adevarati. Dintotdeauna ma stiam destul de obiectiva asupra subiectului asta, crezand ca daca o persoana imi transmite incredere, iubire si sustinere, chiar si daca abia am cunoscut-o, inseamna ca-mi este prietena. In timp, insa, am descoperit ca e nevoie de ceva mai multe semne pentru a te oferi, a te demasca complet. Nu sunt aici pentru a va spune ca exista o anumita perioada ce defineste o prietenie, ca dupa 7 ani sunteti oficial prieteni adevarati, ci sunt aici pentru a va impartasi cateva dintre intrebarile pe care ar trebui sa ti le pui pentru a sti ca faci parte dintr-o prietenie adevarata. (in opinia mea)

  • Ai vedea-o la orice ora, in orice zi sau situatie daca este nevoie?
  • Daca ati pleca undeva departe, izolati, ti-ar fi deajuns macar pentru ceva timp?
  • I-ai spune orice gandesti fara ezitare?
  • E mandra si te sustine cand o duci bine?
  • E alaturi de tine cand o duci rau?
  • Esti tu insati alaturi de acea persoana? (tu 100%, tu acasa, tu in siguranta)
  • O vezi pe lista celor mai importante persoane din viata ta?

In cateva cuvinte, cauta persoane care te inspira, persoane care vor sa te vada cel mai sus si persoane care nu te judeca, ci te cresc. Eu mi i-am gasit pe-ai mei, dar inca sunt deschisa tuturor, mai ales celor onesti si plini de idei. Pentru ca, sincer, numai alaturi de oameni ca astia poti reusi.

No negativity, xoxo.0kgfds.jpg

ENGLISH:

I have ended up thinking that only time shows true friends. I have always knew myself as objective on this subject, believing that if a person inspires me trust and love, even if we’ve just met, it means we’re friends. Through time, though, I discovered that it takes a little more things to fully offer yourself to that person. I’m not here to tell you there’s a specific amount of time that defines a friendship, that if you’ve been friends for 7 years you’re officially true friends. I’m here to share some of the questions you would have to ask yourself to know if you’re really part of a true friendship. Or at least in my opinion.

  • Would you see that person anytime, in any situation, if you needed to?
  • If you’d leave somewhere far, isolated from the rest of the world, would that person be enough for you (at least for some time)?
  • Would you tell that person anything that’s on your mind without hesitating?
  • Is that person proud when you’re doing good?
  • Is that person with you when you’re doing bad?
  • Are you 100% you with that person? (you safe, at home)
  • Do you see that person as one of the most important people in your life?

To sum up, search for people who inspire you, people who want to see you at your highest and people who don’t judge you, but grow you. I found mine, yet I am still open to everyone, especially to beautiful, sincere minds full of ideas. Cause, honestly, you can only succeed around this kind of people.

xoxo.

2 thoughts on “True Friendships

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s